Carl Meir wrote an obituary in News Letter #3 August 1956
In Memory of Mrs. Eleanor C. Merry
In Mrs. Merry, who died in May, 1956, the Bio-Dynamic Movement in this country has lost one of its founder members and one of its oldest friends. Together with D.N. Dunlop, she organised the “World Conference for Spiritual Science and its Practical Application” in the summer of 1928, having gained experience during all her work in connection with the summer schools at Penmaenmawr and Torquay in 1923 and 1924, when Rudolf Steiner appreciated so very much all she had done. It was through her that I received an invitation to lecture at the World Conference when Count Keyserlingk could not manage to come to represent the bio-dynamic work. She was the very first Anthroposophist I met on arriving in this country in June, 1928, and throughout the next 28 years she retained her unfailing warmheartedness, her readiness to help and advise, her ability to inspire others with her own enthusiasm.
In 1929, Mrs. Merry bought the Old Mill House, Bray-on-Thames, as a Guest House and Conference Centre, and here it was that my family and I set up house. At the many small conferences arranged by her many contacts were made among young and old students of Rudolf Steiner from many countries. How often has one experienced: “It was at Bray where we met first, at this or that conference arranged by Mrs. Merry…..” For our daily life there she made, week by week, a most beautiful translation of Rudolf Steiner’s Soul Calendar. She had a great and deep knowledge of the German language and was at the same time a master of English. Her wide range of interests, together with practical knowledge in many fields, enabled her to make contributions at many occasions. Above all she was an artist, a painter with colours and words, and unstintingly she placed all she had at the disposal of the Anthroposophical Movement.
Later on, her sister, Marna Pease, bought the Old Mill House and made it into the centre of the bio-dynamic work in this country. Mrs. Merry moved to London and it would be quite impossible within the frame of this short notice to enumerate all she did in the following years. The development of the Anthroposophical Society in Great Britain is linked inseparably with Eleanor Merry, and almost every new endeavour and enterprise could count on her as an active supporter.
She edited the journal of the Anthroposophical Society for many years, and she wrote many books of a more learned character, she painted and wrote poetry, and together with Mrs. Schindler she published that wonderful work “Colour”.
In recent years her health failed, and living, as she did, alone, she did not always have that care she needed. But whenever you met her, at Rudolf Steiner House or in the streets nearby, she was always full of interest in what other people did and strove for. She remained active to the very last.
Our memories of Eleanor C. Merry are based on deep gratitude for all she did for the being of Anthroposophia whom she had met through her teacher Rudolf Steiner. Her whole long life and all she possessed in wordly goods and her rich gifts were devoted to “Spiritual Science and its Practical Application”. Our feeling of gratitude for her life is deepened by the knowledge that also in future we shall not be without her help and guidance. Our ranks here on earth are the poorer for her death our cause and our courage the stronger.
Early years and marriage
Eleanor Charlotte Kynaston grew up in a liberal educational environment, her father being the well known classical scholar and professor of Ancient Greek, Herbert Snow aka Kynaston. It was only at the age of 13 that she began to attend a regular school. This was also when she began to take a passionate interest in music. Two years later, her father became Deacon of Durham, so Eleanor grew up close to the beautiful cathedral. She was able to read the manuscripts that were kept in the monastic library, walking up and down amongst the Norman columns of the cathedral and experienced something of a real, concrete history, something completely different from what she read in her schoolbooks. It was the myths and legends that captivated her, and she learned by heart Tennyson’s King Arthur. The stream of scholars and theologians that entered their house fed her spiritual longings.
As she grew up, she sought a career as singer, wanting to study music and art. At 19, she left home for a course of study in Vienna, which led not only to a fine command of the German language and development of her musical skills but also placed her in a kind of artistic-aesthetic inner crisis. Soon after her return to England, she married the well-known Oxford surgeon Merry, to whose professional commitments Eleanor Merry was to devote much of her energy besides the rearing of their son and daughter.
She learnt about Theosophy at the beginning of World War I when a copy of the “Secret Doctrine” of H.P. Blavatsky was sent her by persons unknown. As she read it, she felt as if guided by some unseen hand, and studied further works of Annie Besant and other Theosophists. After the war, she was made aware of Rudolf Steiner’s Knowledge of the Higher Worlds. In January 1922 she met Daniel Nicol Dunlop in London for the first time. He was reading a lecture of Rudolf Steiner’s to the anthroposophical group there. A few months later, her husband died of pneumonia, after which she had her first personal conversation with DN Dunlop. Dunlop was still fired up with gratitude over his meeting with Rudolf Steiner some few weeks previously.
Meeting with Rudolf Steiner
She thereupon took part in the conference “Spiritual Values in Education” in Oxford that August, where she met Rudolf Steiner personally for the first time. She saw him first in a corridor and by his gait and the manner in which he looked at her, she had the impression: “He knows where he is going.”
She assisted D.N. Dunlop in the preparation of the subsequent Summer School in Penmaenmawr the following year, where a further conversation with Rudolf Steiner took place in which he recommended to her the new techniques in painting that had been developed under his guidance. She was soon exhibiting publicly in London and elsewhere. He also advised her to form as strong a bond as possible with Dunlop. This summer school, devoted to the theme “The Evolution of Consciousness” was felt by Steiner to be a milestone in the development of the anthroposophical movement.
Eleanor was present at the founding of the new General Anthroposophical Society at the Goetheanum in Dornach, Switzerland around New Year 1923/24. It is likely that the theme of the ensuing Summer School at Torquay in 1924, “True and False Paths in Spiritual Investigation” (GA 243). stemmed from a conversation she had with Rudolf Steiner on this occasion.
In her further work in Britain after Rudolf Steiner’s death, she wholeheartedly supported D.N. Dunlop’s efforts to create an open, inclusive and at the same time spiritually founded continuation of the anthroposophical work. She acted as secretary of the anthroposophical World Conference in London of 1928 and wrote a play around the figure of King Arthur for the youth conference initiated by David Clement in Glastonbury in 1932. More immediately than anyone, she experienced the dramatic events affecting Daniel Dunlop between 1929, when he became General Secretary of the Anthroposophical Society in Great Britain and the spring of 1935, when he was expelled from the General Anthroposophical Society and died a short while later. After his death, she maintained intimate friendships with her half-sister, Marna Pease, Walter Johannes Stein and particularly Eugen Kolisko, whom she helped to build up the School for Spiritual Science, wrote numerous articles for their magazine “The Modern Mystic”, and wrote down the biographical notes Kolisko dictated to her. In the 1940s she led a painting school together with Maria Schindler as well as working with her on the book Pure Colour (1946), leading to large public exhibitions.
Eleanor Charlotte Merry died on 16. June 1956 in Frinton-on-Sea, Essex.
- Pure Colour by Maria Schindler and Eleanor C. Merry. New Culture Publications, 1946. ASIN B0060DEF66
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